Anonymous asked: how do you nicely and unawkwardly tell someone like your boyfriend that they have something between their teeth or stuff like that. weird question sorry haha

hahaha I just say “hey uhh, you got a lil somethin’ somethin’” and point and wink. It makes it cute and funny so that the person doesn’t feel bad or awkward.

Anonymous asked: This guy I am talking to was talking about how he's going to this amusement park next week.. Do you think he would get it if I kept hinting that I want to go? I mean, I don't know him well enough to just come right out & ask to go.. But I kind of wish he would ask me, because I think it would be an adorable first date. Any idea how to approach this without being too straight-forward?

guys aren’t like girls…they don’t pick up on subtle hints, and he’ll probably just take it as a little weird. I think you should just play it smooth and confident and say something like “well, if you are in need of a partner to double up for the rollarcoasters…i’d be more than happy to sacrifice my day for you ;)”….say it flirty, you know? I think something along the lines there isn’t too forward, shows you are interested in going with him, and also shows you are interested in him too! Don’t beat around the bush though, you’ll regret it when he doesn’t catch on and you miss out on an awesome day with him.

Anonymous asked: i just broke up with this a guy and he is the nicest person to be with and i SUPER- DOUPER, REALLY like him. But im not ready for a boyfriend yet, and i want him to know that but i have no clue how. Cause i dont want him to go tell everyone and im afraid people with call me a teaser. is that teaser?? im just really confuesed.. this probably isnt a good question but hopefully thats cool!(:

You have to make up your mind now if you want him in your life or not. You cant dump him, then keep him around because you still like him. Thats unfair…so yes, I guess you can call that a tease. Don’t play with his heart! You either have to distance yourself from him so he has time to heal or be with him.

Anonymous asked: i think i'm bisexual. i don't know if i should tell my friends.

be honest, if they are your true friends they will accept you for who you are. Just tell them!

Anonymous asked: There's this guy that i've liked for almost 2 years now. In dec. he broke up with his gf of 1year and a half. Since then we've been flirting more and texting all the time and he sends me cute sweet things. I feel like it's going somewhere, but I'm afraid my grandparents wont approve. I've just been trying for so long and I dont want to give up. Plus they have shit reasons. Like he's catholic/doesn't go to church and hes Puerto Rican. Do you think i should just give up or keep trying?I"m confused

follow your heart! No one else has the right to dictate your life, so don’t let them. It is not fair for you to not do or see someone you want because your grandparents are stuck in the past. Talk to your grandparents, tell them that this is your life and you have the right to do with it as you please and tell them that it would mean the world to you if they would give him a chance and meet him for themselves…then make their decision.

Anonymous asked: I'm talking to this guy, and he always sends me really sweet texts, & all of that, & we both like eachother, it just all seems perfect. he's kind of popular, i guess you could say. however, i have like, 2 problems; First, there's always this like, voice in the back of my head, that's wondering if he is saying these things to anyone else.. because i do see him talking to other girls, (cont.)

Anonymous asked: (con.) being friendly & stuff. If i'm really going to invest in going after this guy, i really want to be sure that he's into me & only me, you know? second... he will not talk to me in person, it's soo annoying, because I mean, i am really shy, & he knows that. But he isn't usually shy around other people, so why won't he talk to me? ugh.

well, find out for yourself. If you are really interested in this guy, show him…and step out of your comfort zone and go and talk to HIM in person. And he doesn’t owe you anything…he can be talking to other girls. It’s until you express interest in him and show him that…he has all the rights to invest in other girls. Not many guys will stick around if you aren’t expressing interest, you know? Stop waiting for him to come around to you and talk to you in person…you are equally responsible!

Anonymous asked: how do i know if im having an orgasm? like..what happens during one? for a girl

it will be pretty obvious. Your muscles will start tensing and you’ll feel warm pleasurable sensations throughout your body (I get it mostly in my legs) and it will build and build and then release…then your body will just pleasurably ache and relax…pretty amazing.

Anonymous asked: im 15, but im really afraid to tell my mom because i dont want to ruin their marriage, she can be very harsh and strict and unpredictable. i just feel unconfortable knowing my dad is doing this

yeah you are definitely not at an age that you should have to deal with something like this. Is your brother older than you? If he is older he might be someone that would be better to approach your father. But if not, you really need to talk it out with your mom. Approach it like this. Tell that you have been feeling pretty uncomfortable around home and been kind of afraid to approach this and talk about it with anyone but you really need to tell her. Then just open up, tell her whats happened everytime it’s happened…tell her your brother witnessed things to so she knows you aren’t making things up. You are really being an adult here and stepping up! after that though, it is between your mother and your father.

Anonymous asked: okay, so one day when my mom was out of town, my dad just closed himself in his room the entire day, and when i opened the door, his pants were partly down and he quickly closed his laptop and got really startled. then my brother said that he walked in on something similar. and often when my mom is at work, he is shut in his room all day. im almost positive hes watching porn. does that mean that my moms not enough for him? should i confront him or tell my mom or what?

How old are you? If I were you I would approach your mom about it and tell her what has happened and it makes you uncomfortable feeling like something is going on. And no, it does not mean that your mom is not enough for him. A lot of guys are into porn that have girl friends and are married…I don’t necessarily agree with it, and a lot of girls wouldn’t but its a male thing. I would definitely let your parents settle it between themselves and their relationship than you getting involved. It may leave a pretty uncfomortable situation between you and your dad if you are the one who approaches him.